Question: Thinking about suicide, PLEASE somebody help?

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Answer #1:

Listen, no matter what anyone here tries to tell you, you'll have to find it for yourself. God made all of us equal and words, no matter how bitter, can never change that. You never have to be ashamed of your skin, dialect, or weight because nobody is perfect, no matter how they act. Try going a day without considering a single negative remark that is said about you. If you can pull that off, half the battle is already over. Now all you have to do is be yourself. Often we go through depressions and down times where there seems like a positive side doesn't exist. We underestimate ourselves, our values, our strengths. We blot out who we really are with the image of what we think we are compared to everyone else.
However, know this:

You are motivated.
You are strong-willed.
You are intelligent.
You are determined.
You are UNIQUE.

No matter what happens, don't ever subject yourself to a position lower than dirt. We all have our hard times and sometimes, we can't see the light. But hold fast and know that it's there and it's coming. Reality can be tough, but it is a lot easier on those who understand it.

Answer #2:

i think the best way is to talk about what happened with your mom.. i no ur probly saying NO right now but it REALLY will help. you can trust me on that one =)

Answer #3:

A few years ago I was in your position. I had no one to talk to, no one that would help me, but then I reached out to my guidance counselor who sent me to a therapist. I've been seeing her for three years, and the experience has changed my life in so many ways. I recommend possibly seeing your high school psychiatrist or social worker. They'll listen, it's their job to listen. And maybe nothing great will come of it, but maybe you'll be able to build yourself a support network like I did.

In the meantime, have you ever read PostSecret? The founder Frank Warren is a strong advocate for a national suicide hotline, Hopeline. If you live in the US, you can call 1-800-442-HOPE. You'll get a real live person to talk to who won't judge you, won't pity you and won't make fun of you.

I hope that little spark of vitality you're clinging on to, that tiny part of you that still has some fight left in it will grow and prosper. The world can be a beautiful place if you look at it through the right lens.

Answer #4:

Don't do it!!! I was raped my next door neighbor when I was 4-6. Life gets better, I promise. Tell someone. It hurts like a knife, but tell some one please.

Answer #5:

Hi Sassy,

It's important that you keep yourself safe when you have thoughts like these. Try to remember that thoughts about taking your life are just thoughts. They do not mean you have to act on them.

No matter how overwhelming they are or how often you have them. They also don't mean that you will always have those thoughts.

It is possible to get through the dark times by creating your own 'tool kit' of coping strategies, which you can use when you're feeling suicidal or when things feel hopeless. Some suggestions include:

Postpone any Decision to End your Life:
Keep a list of other things you can do to distract yourself. This might include watching a DVD or going to the movies, playing a game, ringing a friend, chatting on msn, doing some exercise, reading a book or listening to music.

Write Down your Feelings:
Keep a journal.

Set Small Goals:
Try to set goals that are achievable for you.

Tell Someone:
You could tell a family member or friend, a counsellor or any person that you feel comfortable with or a crisis line.

In Australia you can ring these services toll free, 24/7 - Suicide call back line 1300 659 467, Beyond Blue 1300 224 636, Lifeline 13 11 14, SANE Helpline on 1800 18 SANE (7263), or the Kids helpline 1800 551 800, 000 emergency response line or your local mental health emergency service/public hospital.

You are not alone. There are people who understand the feelings you are having and can help you.

PLEASE talk to someone NOW and get some help to get you through this.

Answer #6:

okay please listen to me i have the same case in the world is perfect kind of thing ..
sometimes i have so much stress in my life i feel like i cannot take it anymore .
i know im only 14 but i KNOW this for a fact . you parents dont hate you their scare they know something is up their overwelmed and to afraid to really aks you whats going on . my mom whent throught the EXACT same thing you are going threw right now . she felt ashamed .. embrassed she dident want to tell anyone . but eventully she did and she said that was the best choice of her life .
tell your parents their understanding they will not think anything dirty or graphic about it they still see the child in you and they will always be their for you . your parents will be the most comfortably stable people you can talk too , you need to do it and do it tonight . this is going to help .. BE STRONG THINK LIKE YOUR ON TOP OF THE WORLD AND YOU CAN TAKE DOWN ANYONE CONFIDENCE WILL HELP YOU . and dont wrry about your friends , you will finish a carreer and have a new lifewith new friends new everything it will be amazing .
please email me i can relate to what your going through , im very understanding ..

Answer #7:

hey, love.
I read the question, then I read the inside information. then I read it again.

I have been in positions similar to that, and, quite frankly, I'm screwed up. just being honest. I was a cutter, but stopped after attempting suicide. I suppose you should talk to a councelor. I don't think they help, though. you said you are enrolling into a school? I suggest a one different from the one you had previously attended, to make a new start that you deserve.
(I don't know if I mentioned this, but I made this account just to answer this.)
I know it sucks, but talk to your parents. apologize to them. go to your doctor to try to get sleeping pills, so you can have a dreamless sleep. try to get antidepressants, too.
don't overdose. you usually puke it back up, in some cases. if you do attempt suicide, I hope it doesn't fall through. hate to break it to you, love, but you really do need to see a doctor. (quite frankly, I need to see one too. I know what I'm saying for that part. and honestly, I am afraid.)

I also believe that you need a hug. get to a new school, make new friends, get a new start. with everything, if necessary. oh, and check out this website, if you haven't before.
www.twloha.com
helpful to know that there are so many others out there, too, willing to help and provide support.

I guess this is all I can do. good luck.

Answer #8:

You definitely not kill yourself. Your life is far from over. Yes a lot of bad things have happened because of that one night but that doesn't mean the end. There is still so much in the world that you have to live for. I'm sure your parents wouldn't' want you dead. No matter how mean you are to them. You may think that all the friends you had before have abandoned you, but I am sure that if you were to die today, they would miss you horribly and feel sick. Also you killing yourself will not make the pain go away. I don't know what your religion is but I know that there is an afterlife, and what you do on earth determines what kind of afterlife you have. The final thing I have to say is, look at all these people who don't even know you and don't want you kill yourself, your life is worth something to people who don't even know you. I know that personally that is definitely enough for me to not kill myself. ^_^

Don't end your life..you have so much to live for..though you are going through rough times..this is the time you need to talk to someone...we're all here on this site to talk to you..show you that you're worth SOO much..i'm not sure if you believe in God or not but prayer would be the key for a time like this. This is just a trial that can be overcame..just put your trust in GOD..and realize that your life is PRECIOUS.
God Bless.

Answer #9:

You need to talk to someone you can contact me mermaid2334@yahoo.com. I will pray for you to stay strong.

The righteous cry, and the LORD heareth, and delivereth them out of all their troubles. The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous: but the LORD delivereth him out of them all.

Answer #10:

please dont do suicide im only 12 but i dont want someone to die dont do it. i have felt like u before my parents were gettin divorced i had no friends and unlike u no one thought i was pretty. ive seen what the pills do to u they make u dissy cause u pain but u dont die u just hurt all the time look like ur 99 years old and u feal like its the end of the world DONT DO IT i know theres bad stuff in the world but theres good things to TELL UR PARENTS they will help say ur sorry they willl care just dont murder dont be phsyco im not judging dont do it if u had a perfect life then u can get back to that tell ur friends that something terrible happened and they will understand. they wil care. someone could get hime arrested dont hurt urself just think of all the good things in life there are. god can help god will help u through this. does the cutting hurt because what do u get out of any of this dont give up hope will come now i have tons of friends becausse i tried dont kill urself. if u kill ursself u will not only give urself pain but like 1 million other people ur parents care trust me help urself get involved u could severly hurt urself dont to it please im begging u i know milions of peeps would give u answers but there scared too im terrafied or however u spell that dont do it. its bad it wont help

Answer #11:

no please don't!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer #12:

I am not trying to get you to sympathize with me, but here me out. I am 17 also. Last year I hit rock bottom too. I thought I had no friends and that no one liked me. Before this time, I too thought I was good looking and had a good thing going. But that worst day of my life comes by and changes all that. Everyone has a "worst day of your life." Some people have a worse "worst day" than others. I can sympathize with you, I know what it feels like to hit rock bottom. I've contemplated suicide too during that rock bottom moment.

Let me tell you how I got myself back up.

Love.

The kind of love you have with your family, friends, and especially yourself. The hardest one to love is yourself. Once I found love for myself, I was in higher places, and was back to the way I was before. The question now is, how do I find love for myself? Because when I hit rock bottom, that was the LAST thing I could EVER believe I could do.

Let me tell you how I could love myself again.

One thing I did was exercise. This sounds stupid and pointless, but I promise you if you at least run around the block once, you will feel better than before you started the run.

Take a shower. When I felt stupid or dumb or unworthy of life or what I called, "dirty" I took a shower and pretended that I was washing away all my dirty thoughts or feelings.

Believe that your God loves you. Don't ever forget this.

If you have the motivation to, start a journal. Not any journal though, you have to promise yourself you will only write positive things. When I hit rock bottom, journal writing felt pointless, but not only that, I thought positive things were stupid. Even if its one sentence because that is all you can think of positively, then you write only one sentence. Everyday you do this, you will be able to write more positive things. :) This was the most effective thing for me.

Do service. At the worst part of my demise, service to others never crossed my mind. Keep this in mind though, when things get better, (and they will!) giving service will bring you joy that I can't explain.

Know that everyone that answered your question is praying for you. I am as well. You will get better. I did. So will you.

Answer #13:

call da suicide hotline they are trained to help you.

Answer #14:

What happened to you was not your fault, and you need to realize it. It's not your fault. Everything that you wrote is not your fault. But the first thing you need to do is tell your parents what happened. It's the number one step. It may even take time for them to believe you, but they will. Your parents love you. You just have to believe in telling them. And I would also recommend talking to someone who specializes in therapy for girls who have gone through this. You are not alone. It definitely is not your fault for what happened, so there's no reason for you to blame yourself for anything that happened. Forget about who you were in the past (being gorgeous) and forget about the straight A girl from the past. That incident made you into a stronger person to be here today. all you have to do is make the first step and tell your parents.

Answer #15:

Wow, Fxck this guy for what he did to you, he should be curb stomped. Damn this pisses me off, I am so sorry this had to happen.

I'm sorry I dont even know where to begin answering your question

Look my name is doug, i'm 19 and you said you want someone to talk to so please message me if you'd like, drop a line in my inbox and I'd be more than happy to talk with you about this, or anything else for however long.

Answer #16:

I admire your confidence to tell people. I don't think I have a lot of confidence. But I try to improve myself. I hope you don't take the pills. I also think that it is a waste to kill yourself. Why would you want to give up in the most you should learn to protect others from getting harmed also. I intend to protect those that I see in harm because I don't want others to experience the same thing.
I believe that you can help yourself by not letting this happen ever again. Also you should find things that you enjoy so you can enjoy life.
If you want you can talk to me.

Answer #17:

Everything will be okay darling. I was in your same situation, beside the IT part, and I know exactly how you feel.
I am failing in college, my mom wants me out, I don't have a decent job and I used to be pretty too but I've let myself go. I know your feeling all too well.
It is okay to cry, cry A LOT. Tell you parents what happened with the IT situation. They HAVE to know so they can understand what you are going through. They must know. Don't feel ashamed. IT WASNT YOUR FAULT. It was the dirty person's fault who did that to you. You need help asap, Please tell your parents what is going on.





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